The cheating spouse community is a peer to peer support community aimed at helping people that are dealing with spouses who are having affairs or who they suspect are cheating on them
22 posts
THIS FICKLE LOVER
I realized that I had fallen madly in love with him completely by accident, so I broke up with my boyfriend so I could be with him. He was thrilled with this, and we spent a couple absolutely blissful weeks together where we sang love songs to each other, cooked meals together, danced like crazy, watched old Disney movies, developed... Read more
11/03/2022
THIS DEVASTATING DISSOLUTION
My first boyfriend of two years dumped me near the beginning of college for another girl and stopped speaking to me cold turkey. Left me friendless in a new place. Didn't even acknowledge me when we passed on the same staircase in campus. Two years together and I was dead to him in a day.
11/03/2022
GOOGLE ME NOT
"My gut told me to google my partner of two years. Once I did, their name and a cheater blog popped as the first hit and had been updated two weeks prior. I clicked the link to find photos of an online conversations between two women arguing over my boyfriend. Their profile photos and full names were on the pictures... Read more
11/01/2022
VIAGRA GONE BAD
"I found Viagra tablets in my husband's drawer. I was shocked. One packet had been taken already, and one was full. I was running late for work, so thought Iโd speak to him when I got back. I got home after work and found that heโd taken two tablets while I was in the office. I asked him about it... Read more
11/01/2022
EMILY IN PARIS
"Five years into our relationship, my boyfriend decided to go on an extended backpacking trip after getting his degree at 25. I stayed home and worked for a few months and we planned to reunite in Paris and spend a month exploring the city. I didnโt find out until I got to Paris that he was in a full-blown relationship... Read more
10/27/2022
MILF IN LOVE
"We were together for five years and finally got engaged. During the wedding planning, he started getting all stressed, saying it was too soon, so we called the wedding off. Then, he kept going to 'hang out' with his mom's friend, smoking weed with her, which was fine with me since I donโt smoke. Something was bugging me though, so... Read more
10/27/2022
I KISSED MY BEST FRIEND
I have been married for 3-4 years and it was a love marriage. We are happy together. My best friend is a man and we have literally grown up together since the age of 5. Last year, he and I got drunk on a weekend and my husband had gone to the loo. I donโt know what happened, but I... Read more
10/17/2022
GOOD SEX
My husband is sweet and caring but when it comes to sex, he doesnโt last for more than 5 minutes. He doesnโt foreplay either and we have had tons of fights over this. Sexually I am a frustrated woman. He does not even care that I am frustrated, he just looks at his own sexual appetite. A few weeks back... Read more
10/12/2022
EMOTIONAL CHEATING
โI have been married for 7 years now and we were happy together until a year ago. My husband got so busy with his work that he would come home very late at night, sleep and then go off to work early in the morning. On the weekends too he would rarely have time for me and our kids. I... Read more
10/12/2022
CLOSURE WITH THE OTHER WOMAN
"My husband of 25 years had an affair with his boss, a famous singer who hired him to play guitar in her band. He knew her for three months before he left me and our 9-year-old son. That was last May. He moved out the same day he told me I had made him miserable for years, and that the... Read more
10/07/2022
Therapy doesnโt cure evil
Went to log into email and a suggested one that I didn't recognize popped up. I answered all his security questions, and reset his password to find emails between him and the neighbor. We were in therapy to recover from him cheating with her
and there they were waxing poetic about their love and when I'd be out of the... Read more
10/05/2022
Signs Your Spouse Could Be Cheating
One of the more difficult issues in a relationship is infidelity, which can be traumatizing. While many people are caught off guard when they learn that a spouse or partner has cheated, others may have suspicions due to unusual behavior.ย
Take into account the following warning indications that your relationship may be a cheating scumbag.
They change in communication
A... Read more
10/03/2022
Why cheating partners never admit to having affairs.ย
Some people will lie until they turn completely blue. They are breaking the law by doing this, which proves they are aware of this. If you are able to accept that reality, then you are like the majority of people worldwide. You can either move on with your life and look for someone who doesn't do that to you, or... Read more
10/01/2022
Intertwine
My husband changed his cell phone from our joint plan to hers. Verizon sent me an email confirming the change and the account his line was added to, which included her name. I asked him, and he lied. I looked her up on Facebook, and it turns out they had just celebrated their 2 year dating anniversary. We had just... Read more
09/30/2022
what's the worst way you found out a SO was cheating on you?
I'll go first, after my ex and I broke up one night I hung out with a mutual friend I hadn't seen in a year or more.
I knew he was about to tell me how his wife left him, so I unloaded all my shitty life happenings also "ended 6 year relationship, ex cheated, had to move back in... Read more
09/29/2022
Confessionals
My husband had been really nasty to me recently, and we got into a huge fight the night before he went on a business trip. By morning we had sort of made up, but I was still salty. He always texts me to tell me when his plane lands and normally I respond, but I was still so mad, I... Read more
09/24/2022
Broken Lease
It's so classic and pathetic it will sound sitcomy, but I found long blond hair in our bed. It's a short haired brunette. He had a buzzcut. When confronted he shrugged and said " Well, what are you gonna do about it, anyway, dump me? you can't, we have a shared lease, so suck it up"
Guess who got dumped... Read more
09/24/2022