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Cheating Spouses


The cheating spouse community is a peer to peer support community aimed at helping people that are dealing with spouses who are having affairs or who they suspect are cheating on them

22 posts

THIS FICKLE LOVER

I realized that I had fallen madly in love with him completely by accident, so I broke up with my boyfriend so I could be with him. He was thrilled with this, and we spent a couple absolutely blissful weeks together where we sang love songs to each other, cooked meals together, danced like crazy, watched old Disney movies, developed... Read more

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11/03/2022


THIS DEVASTATING DISSOLUTION

My first boyfriend of two years dumped me near the beginning of college for another girl and stopped speaking to me cold turkey. Left me friendless in a new place. Didn't even acknowledge me when we passed on the same staircase in campus. Two years together and I was dead to him in a day.

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11/03/2022


GOOGLE ME NOT

"My gut told me to google my partner of two years. Once I did, their name and a cheater blog popped as the first hit and had been updated two weeks prior. I clicked the link to find photos of an online conversations between two women arguing over my boyfriend. Their profile photos and full names were on the pictures... Read more

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11/01/2022


VIAGRA GONE BAD

"I found Viagra tablets in my husband's drawer. I was shocked. One packet had been taken already, and one was full. I was running late for work, so thought I’d speak to him when I got back. I got home after work and found that he’d taken two tablets while I was in the office. I asked him about it... Read more

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11/01/2022


EMILY IN PARIS

"Five years into our relationship, my boyfriend decided to go on an extended backpacking trip after getting his degree at 25. I stayed home and worked for a few months and we planned to reunite in Paris and spend a month exploring the city. I didn’t find out until I got to Paris that he was in a full-blown relationship... Read more

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10/27/2022


MILF IN LOVE

"We were together for five years and finally got engaged. During the wedding planning, he started getting all stressed, saying it was too soon, so we called the wedding off. Then, he kept going to 'hang out' with his mom's friend, smoking weed with her, which was fine with me since I don’t smoke. Something was bugging me though, so... Read more

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10/27/2022


I KISSED MY BEST FRIEND

I have been married for 3-4 years and it was a love marriage. We are happy together. My best friend is a man and we have literally grown up together since the age of 5. Last year, he and I got drunk on a weekend and my husband had gone to the loo. I don’t know what happened, but I... Read more

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10/17/2022


GOOD SEX

My husband is sweet and caring but when it comes to sex, he doesn’t last for more than 5 minutes. He doesn’t foreplay either and we have had tons of fights over this. Sexually I am a frustrated woman. He does not even care that I am frustrated, he just looks at his own sexual appetite. A few weeks back... Read more

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10/12/2022


EMOTIONAL CHEATING

“I have been married for 7 years now and we were happy together until a year ago. My husband got so busy with his work that he would come home very late at night, sleep and then go off to work early in the morning. On the weekends too he would rarely have time for me and our kids. I... Read more

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10/12/2022


CLOSURE WITH THE OTHER WOMAN

"My husband of 25 years had an affair with his boss, a famous singer who hired him to play guitar in her band. He knew her for three months before he left me and our 9-year-old son. That was last May. He moved out the same day he told me I had made him miserable for years, and that the... Read more

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10/07/2022


Therapy doesn’t cure evil

Went to log into email and a suggested one that I didn't recognize popped up. I answered all his security questions, and reset his password to find emails between him and the neighbor. We were in therapy to recover from him cheating with her

and there they were waxing poetic about their love and when I'd be out of the... Read more

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10/05/2022


1, 2, 3… GO

Found my wife's notebook. Written on the first page was a 10-step plan detailing how she was going to leave me for another guy.

 

I turned it into one step

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10/05/2022


Signs Your Spouse Could Be Cheating

One of the more difficult issues in a relationship is infidelity, which can be traumatizing. While many people are caught off guard when they learn that a spouse or partner has cheated, others may have suspicions due to unusual behavior. 

Take into account the following warning indications that your relationship may be a cheating scumbag.

They change in communication

A... Read more

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10/03/2022


Why cheating partners never admit to having affairs. 

Some people will lie until they turn completely blue. They are breaking the law by doing this, which proves they are aware of this. If you are able to accept that reality, then you are like the majority of people worldwide. You can either move on with your life and look for someone who doesn't do that to you, or... Read more

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10/01/2022


Intertwine

My husband changed his cell phone from our joint plan to hers. Verizon sent me an email confirming the change and the account his line was added to, which included her name. I asked him, and he lied. I looked her up on Facebook, and it turns out they had just celebrated their 2 year dating anniversary. We had just... Read more

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09/30/2022


what's the worst way you found out a SO was cheating on you?

I'll go first, after my ex and I broke up one night I hung out with a mutual friend I hadn't seen in a year or more.

I knew he was about to tell me how his wife left him, so I unloaded all my shitty life happenings also "ended 6 year relationship, ex cheated, had to move back in... Read more

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09/29/2022


Confessionals

My husband had been really nasty to me recently, and we got into a huge fight the night before he went on a business trip. By morning we had sort of made up, but I was still salty. He always texts me to tell me when his plane lands and normally I respond, but I was still so mad, I... Read more

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09/24/2022


Broken Lease

It's so classic and pathetic it will sound sitcomy, but I found long blond hair in our bed. It's a short haired brunette. He had a buzzcut. When confronted he shrugged and said " Well, what are you gonna do about it, anyway, dump me? you can't, we have a shared lease, so suck it up"

Guess who got dumped... Read more

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09/24/2022


Back From War

Mt St Augustine erupted in Alaska in 1986. They had to evacuate all planes out of Elmendorf AFB due to ash in the air. This sent my unit home from Korea 3 days early. I got home at 2 AM and there was a guy sleeping next to my wife in our bed.

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09/20/2022


Little humor to lighten your burden

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09/12/2022